Even if you’re super familiar with how to use sex toys while masturbating, whipping toys out with partners can feel like a whole other story. Luckily for you, in a lot of ways, there’s not a huge difference between using a toy with a partner and using one on yourself. In fact, you can probably use most of the toys you masturbate with during partnered play, too.

See our BLOG to familiarise yourself with the different toys and functions.

• Make sure everyone is on board.
• Shop for a toy together to build up anticipation.
• Use yoir toys all over each others body.
• Stimulate yourself during penetration.
• Experiment with edging: Toys are especially handy when it comes to edging, the act of getting yourself or a partner close to orgasm but stopping before it actually happens.
• Go the remote way
• Play with all your senses
• Find ways to reverse rolls
• Masturbate together

You should most certainly! Whether you're going solo or playing with a partner, lubricant can help your vibrator to move more smoothly and comfortably over the body, offering a more pleasurable experience. Be sure to use a water-based lubricant and wash your vibrator thoroughly after each use. Some silicone-based lubricants can degrade silicone products. Specifically, lubricants containing cyclopentasiloxane (also known as cyclomethicone) causes the silicone in all products to swell and become misshapen. All JIMMYJANE products are made with the highest-grade, safest silicone available. All silicone products, no matter how high the quality, degrade with prolonged exposure to silicone-based lubricants.

All our devices are water-resistant and can be used in the shower and bath. Your device should not be fully submerged.

Our products are discreetly packaged with no Soul Affair logo on the outside. Inside the package our product are safely packaged in a consumer unit box that has been tested for stability.